Should Your Beneficiary Serve as Your Executor or Trustee?

Posted On: April 19th 2023

Choosing An Executor or Trustee

For most people, choosing an executor or trustee means choosing someone close to them – a family member or a friend. However, this often means their executor or trustee is also a beneficiary. But, will choosing a beneficiary create a conflict of interest?

The short answer is, the best way to avoid a conflict is to be as specific as possible in your instructions to your executor and beneficiaries.

What is the difference between the Executor or Trustee and a Beneficiary?

An executor or trustee has a legal duty to manage the property and assets in the decedent’s estate for the benefit of the trust or estate beneficiaries. This means that while the executor/trustee should be compassionate, they must also act in an equal and unemotional manner toward every beneficiary.

A beneficiary, on the other hand, is often emotionally involved. Even those beneficiaries who are not concerned with the monetary aspect of their inheritance will likely be emotionally invested in the heirlooms of the estate. Sadly, many family feuds are sparked when siblings can’t agree on who gets sentimental items such as the family silver or great grandma’s engagement ring.

How Can Family Feuds Be Minimized?

Adding as much clarity as possible to the terms of your estate will decrease the chances that the executor will be tempted to take advantage of their position. However, you may also want to consider naming a disinterested party as a trust advisor or co-executor to provide checks and balances throughout the administration process.

If you are a beneficiary who is also serving as an executor or trustee there are a few things you can do to ensure you keep your roles separate.

You can:

• Contract a probate or estate planning attorney to mediate or oversee the process.
• Involve an impartial appraiser if real property is involved.
• Step down and hand the role over to a qualified and disinterested party if all else fails.

The Bergman Team is Here to Help You Plan & Protect Your Nest.

If you are concerned about naming an executor or trustee that is also beneficiary, or facing difficulty in serving in the role yourself, we can help you navigate the process in a fair and compassionate manner.

Contact us or book an intake evaluation today.